Archive for December, 2014

Christmas Ordering Dates

Christmas is now less only a couple of weeks away and we at Etched in Memories can’t wait for some quality family time and, of course, a big pile of presents. In this sense, we would like to remind you that if you would like to order Christmas gifts from us, you still have time to do so over the next three weeks. Our Christmas ordering dates are now set and all the information you need is in this post!

First of all, if you are planning to surprise your relatives or friends with some of our 9ct Gold or Sterling Silver items, you haven’t yet missed the opportunity to choose and order them online. The last date for orders and payments we can process before Christmas is Wednesday, December 10, as our jeweller will need a week to make your pendant.

On the other hand, if you prefer your items made of Stainless Steel or Gold Plated, you have an extra week to choose and order – we will take the last orders of this type on Thursday, December 18. Don’t forget to check out our 5 different pendant forms that we can customize for you and turn in the perfect Christmas present.

For all of you who plan to order Christmas presents from us, please have in mind that the items may take a few days to arrive after we post them. In order to ensure all the items are on time, please allow enough time for shipping – it’s not worth risking the Christmas spirit with a late order!

Please note that our office will be closed for Christmas in the period Saturday, December 20 – Tuesday, December 30. In that time, we will be able to answer your e-mails, but, unfortunately, no orders or payments will be processed.

So, just to sum up, here are our Christmas Ordering Dates in a nutshell:

  • December 10 – last date for ordering 9ct Gold and Sterling Silver items.
  • December 18 – last date for ordering Stainless Steel and Gold Plated items.
  • December 20 – December 30 – the office will be closed.

The team at Etched in Memories wishes you an unforgettable Christmas!

The Old-Fashioned Way of Remembering – Memorial Portraiture

Many centuries ago, the Celts believed that their late relatives and friends have gone to a better place and marked their funerals with rich feasts and a lot of laughter. The Romans buried important members of society under roads and paths, because they believed that many people passing over their remains is a sign of honour and respect.

In the medieval fantasy series ‘A Song of Ice and Fire’, the members of House Stark receive their own stone statue in the catacombs of the castle after they are gone, while the Tully House follows an ancient ceremony of setting the remains of the deceased on fire with the help of flaming arrows in the middle of the river.

The scholars of Jordan College in Philip Pullman’s ‘Northern Lights’ have another interesting ritual – the skulls of the deceased are preserved in special underground vaults and their ‘demons’ are represented by golden coins.

Indeed, the ways of remembering practiced in the real and the imaginary worlds vary dramatically and change over time. And while some ideas of remembering may appear shocking to us, it is useful to be acquainted with the different options of maintaining the connection, letting go and preserving memories. One really interesting way of remembering, which is not too popular now but was often used in America and Europe in the 19th and the beginning of the 20th century, was the memorial portraiture, also known as post-mortem photography.

In 1839, the invention of the daguerreotype made it possible for many people to have their pictures taken quickly and at an affordable price (in contrast to the costly and slow painted portraits). And while many people took advantage of the invention of photography and made sure to have photos of memorable events, a new application of the technology was quickly invented and adopted – Memorial Portraits. The families of deceased people often hired photographers to take the photo of a family member who had just passed away and the resulting pictures were their only visual memory of this person.

The interest of post-mortem photography soon motivated the photographers to discover different methods of representation. Indeed, some pictures showed the deceased person in their coffin, but there were many situations when the man behind the camera tried everything to make the model look as alive as possible. If you browse through this gallery of memorial portraits, you will see that some people look absolutely alive and you wouldn’t have guessed the nature of the photo if you didn’t know what you are going to see. Other photographs tried to arrange the photo in a way that would convince us the model is sleeping – especially when it came to babies or small children. They would usually hold a favourite object of theirs – a doll or a teddy bear, or even a pet! – to make the photo more realistic.

At one point, post-mortem photography became so popular that deceased pupils and students were included in collective photos of the class or the school. They were kept standing with the help of special tools that supported them, and later the photograph retouched the pictures to make them look alive. In this 9GAG post you can see some of the different techniques used by the photographers when shooting a memorial portrait.

Later in the 20th century, post-mortem photography started to lose its popularity. Indeed, when browsing the old photos, you can see how hard it was for family members to pose with their deceased relatives, but it also seems that they found the whole process natural, maybe even necessary for them to remember a child, a spouse, a sibling who ceased to be. If offered such service by a funeral agency today, we would probably react in a different way and will consider this a strange, shocking and unnatural process. Still, back in its day, post-mortem photography was one of the old-fashioned ways of remembering – it helped people get over their pain and preserve a fond memory of someone they had lost – and that is all that matters.